Once oral sex and intercourse elbow their way into the bedroom, hand-jobs tend to get tossed into the ‘last resort’ basket. But if the only time you wrap your hands around his penis is during oral sex, he’s losing out!
Another reason hand-jobs often find themselves sitting on the bench is that most people (and this includes the men themselves) will just use one tired technique every single time. If you stuck to missionary sex night after night you’d consider yourself in a rut, but when it comes to hand-jobs, for some reason most people are happy to remain unadventurous.
Hand-jobs have untapped potential for giving pleasure, and with the right tips and tricks might just become your man’s new favourite treat!
These six techniques (which originally appeared in my Kama Sutra book) got rave reviews. They say you can never give a man a hand-job better than he can give himself. Grab some water-based lubricant, give these a whirl and prove him wrong!
1. The Big Squeeze
Wait until he’s got a full erection, then take a firm grip, clasping your hand at the top of the shaft. Position your fingers so they’re nudged up against the corona (the ridge separating the head from the shaft) then squeeze. Hold the squeeze for a second, release, then repeat. Because squeezing feels completely different to the more usual ‘sliding hand’ methods, combining it with a more conventional movement works a treat.
2. The Corkscrew
Wrap one hand around the base of the penis and put your other hand on top in the same position but holding onto the other side. Start at the bottom and slide to the top, moving your hands in different directions as you wind toward the head. When you get to the head, use the palm of one hand to caress the entire surface then slide your hands back down again to the starting position (it only feels good if you work upward).
3. The Floppy Fixer
This can be a great technique to try if he’s having trouble getting hard, for instance after a few too many drinks or a stressful day at work.
Begin the move by taking a firm grip at the base, then squeeze while pulling upward, working up the full length. When you reach the head, repeat the same motion using the other hand and continue alternating hands.
4. Up, Up and Away
Open your hand so your thumb and fingers are separated to make an L shaped space then slide your hand underneath his testicles until they rest in it. Push up so you’re lifting them slightly, then with your palm down, separate the first two fingers of your other hand to make a V and slide his penis between them. Now work upwards from the testicles to the head, tilting your hand so the flat of your hand brushes up against the shaft. Don’t just slide up the middle, try sliding up the sides as well, always continuing to move directly upward in a straight line.
5. The Boy Scout
Pretend you’re a girl guide trying to start a fire by rolling a stick between your hands. Hold the palms of your hands straight, facing either side of his penis and using the rolling/rubbing motion, start at the bottom and slide upward, then down again, keeping a consistent rhythm. Start slowly, then build pressure and speed when he approaches climax.
6. Wind Him Up
This move offers an amazing range of sensations that once mastered, should be quite different to anything he’s experienced before! Link your fingers together and put your hands around the base of his penis. Start moving them up the shaft, twisting them continuously from side to side, left to right. Move them around so you’re working on different sides and reaching new areas.
