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So, I'm going through my bookshelves and happen upon a book I contributed to a...

Most of you know that, as well as write books and columns, I have two...

We’ve all had embarrassing moments in the bedroom – some worse than others. Lots we...

You book the restaurant and warn the waiter your table’s likely to be the rowdiest...

Today’s couples have it easy. In the (very, very) old days, if your partner lived...

When this book landed on my desk, I thought of at least three or four...

Ever made a joke about the size of a man’s penis? This blog is written...

So, this is more a news item than a blog but I wanted to tell...

Sex in a bog-standard bedroom is a yawn. Sex in an erotic, exotic playroom is...

There are many myths about whether you should or shouldn’t swallow semen. Most, like the...

I’m not an idiot, I can hear you mutter, everyone knows where the clitoris is....

The only, absolutely guaranteed way to find out how your partner likes to be brought...

Did you have sex on your wedding night? Don’t feel bad if the answer to...

Talk is cheap - if you really want to know what someone’s like, look at...

Thought some of you might be interested in an interview I did for Dating News,...

Remember your first time? It's scary getting up close and personal with a penis when...

Mismatched libidos, recurring arguments that make you feel like you're on a hamster wheel of...

It’s common to think of low sex drive people as the ones with the ‘problem’....

In an ideal world, all high sex drive people would go out with high sex...

How long is long enough for satisfying sex is a question that’s impossible to answer....

First time sex with someone you’ve just hooked up with on Tinder isn’t a big...

Some of you may have already read this because it originally ran as one of...

Virgins who catch salmon with their bare hands, men who have sex with bin liners...

Anatomically, an orgasm is an orgasm. All orgasms originate from the same place even if...

If you don’t have time for a prolonged sex session or don’t particularly want one,...

Some low-libido couples happily decide to take sex off the table but the majority of...

Having your partner strip for you is a top fantasy for both men and women...

Just about everyone has sexual fantasies - and there are lots of reasons why. What...

I get asked run of the mill sex questions all the time - generally the...

Summer beckons and so do summer holidays. There's nothing sexier than a hotel room -...

How much sex makes people happiest? Is there a magic number of times per week...

Sex is usually driven by things like lust, satisfaction and love - but sometimes it’s...

Most solo sex sessions are rushed: we feel aroused so grab our vibe, turn it...

Fancy a threesome but don’t want the complications of another body in the bed? A...

This is the second in a series of blogs about erectile dysfunction (ED) – having...

This article is the first in a series of blogs about erectile dysfunction (ED) –...

Not sure how many of you know this, but I write a weekly column for...

Escape the February blues by revamping a sex life that’s become routine. This is the...

This is the third in a series of practical, technique-based blogs designed to give your...

Intercourse is what many people – particularly men – see at the ‘main event’ of...

Why should you try anal play? Because lots of couples are already enjoying it -...

I’m asked a lot (and I mean a lot) to write about how to make...

There are lots of blogs devoted to oral sex technique but – unlike intercourse –...

Who wants a partridge in a pear tree when you can have one of these...

I remember writing about pegging about 20 years ago and everyone’s reaction was ‘What! My...