If I want to be polyamorous, when do I tell a prospective partner?"I am interested in being polyamorous and dating more than one person at once. When...
‘The baby arrived and my sex drive left’“Help! The baby arrived and my sex drive went. I haven’t felt like sex since.”...
Ever had sex with someone just because it seemed rude not to?Ever had polite sex? I have. I grew up in the sexually liberated 80s. I...
A four-step plan to help women who don’t want sex‘Why don’t I feel like sex?’ is the question I am most asked by women....
The six stages that lead to a sexless relationshipWhen was the last time you had sex? Last night? Last week? Last month? Last…year?...
5 ways to have sex – without actually having itPhoto by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash Hands up if you think penis-in-vagina sex is often the most uninspired,...
When stopping sex isn’t the answerA lack of sex isn’t always a sign of trouble and last week's blog looked...
A journey back to joy – and sexIt's rare that I hand over my blog to someone else. But this isn't just...
Could your relationship survive without sex?Can a relationship survive without sex? Short answer: yes. A relationship can survive perfectly well...
I can only orgasm when I’m on topHere’s the second in a three-part guide for women on what happens when you can...
I can only orgasm when I’m aloneHere's the second in a three-part guide for women on what happens when you can...
Is it a problem if I can only orgasm with my vibrator?‘What if I can only orgasm one way?’ is a question I am often asked...
21 proven ways to help him last longer in bedOf all the questions I am asked by men, this is the one that always...
The perfect sexy present for every stage of your relationshipWant to slip a little something in your partner's stocking that's naughty rather than nice?...
Tempted to act out your sex fantasies? Read this firstSexual fantasies and real-life sex exist on different planes: very few survive the transition from...
My ex made fun of my ‘orgasm face’Q My previous boyfriend used to constantly make fun of the face I make when...
Should you leave if the sex is no good?Q I have met a new man and really like him, but the sex is...
I dread sex after having a babyQ Ever since I had a baby, sex is painful for me. It’s making me dread sex....
Who is my affair hurting if no-one finds out?Q I’m married and having an affair with man who is also married. I know...
Do date nights help revive your sex life?Q Do date nights actually work to help your sex life? The thought of them...
Take the three month sex challengeEvery week on SexTok, my weekly podcast, I set a sex challenge for the week....
How to say rude things without laughingThis is the third in a series of posts designed to help you enjoy three...
How to strip without feeling sillyThis is the second in a series of posts designed to help you enjoy three...
How to roleplay without feeling like an idiotIt’s a fact that we’re all far more sexually adventurous in our heads than in...
How to reconnect after a sex droughtHaven't had sex in...well, let's not even talk about how long? Long enough to make...
Hate dating apps? Here’s how to meet a man offlineWhen this book landed on my desk, I thought of at least three or four...
Pre-written sex conversations to help you talk about sex with your partnerHow do you talk about sex with a partner if you've never talked about sex...
What it feels like when you can’t make your partner orgasmI’ve been writing about sex for a long time yet the statistics for how many...
The good sex etiquette guide: bedside manners guaranteed to impress!Ever sent a sexy photo – without being asked? Ignored the hint to leave after...
The 8 conversations about sex all couples should havePart of this originally appeared as one of my weekly MailOnline columns. It got so...
Is it a bad sign if your partner still masturbates solo?Short answer – no. Lots of people think it must mean their partner isn’t enjoying...
How do the new ED drugs stack up against Viagra?Q: Can you discuss the pros and cons of erectile dysfunction drugs like Tadalafil/Cialis and...
How (and when) to resume having sex after an affairI did a special SexTok podcast recently, focusing on the after effects of cheating and...
Anyone up for sleeping with my wife?For most of us, our partner having sex with someone else would be our worst...
20 new things to do in bed this weekendEveryone knows you need to try new things to keep your sex life fresh and...
Why do I have to be drunk to enjoy sex?Q: I never want sex unless I’ve had some wine. It relaxes me and gives...
The top 13 lust killersYou can’t have great sex if your relationship is in tatters. Identify the deadly sex...
The 10 different sex personalities: what’s yours?Forget everything you’ve ever heard about opposites attracting - in bed it’s far more helpful...
To bare or not to bare: the new etiquette for pubic hair, drunk sex and how much sex is enough sex?So, most of you will know that I am now doing a weekly podcast with...
Excuses, excuses: what to say if your partner won’t try new things in bedYou’re eagerly anticipating a feisty frolic, one hand hopefully hovering over your zip, and they...
Fit for sex: healthy genitals = happy sex lifeWe devise fitness regimes to give us bigger biceps or shapely bottoms but few people...
10 new ideas to get the most out of your anal toysThis is a series of posts designed to make sure you’re getting the most out...
10 new ideas to get the most out of your strokerThis series of posts are designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of...
A spot of slap and tickle: the beginner’s guide to spankingTheories on why a slap on the bottom feels sexy abound. Some say it’s the...
Want to have more mindful sex? Try Tantra, Taoism and the Kama SutraAncient ‘life manuals’ like the Kama Sutra might well be marvellously eccentric, slightly quirky and...
10 new ideas to get the most out of your G-spot vibeThis is a series of posts designed to make sure you’re getting the most out...
10 new ideas to get the most out of your rabbit vibratorThis series of posts are designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of...
Guilty pleasures: Am I weird for fantasising about that?Here’s a comforting thought: no-one’s worked out how to read minds yet. Which means it...
How to use a vibrator on a man"I’ve heard that men like vibrators used on them. But how and where and how...
18 sex treats to make this Valentine’s her best yetWondering how the hell to make this Valentine’s special when you can’t go to a...